October 2025

Tackling The Scary Stuff

Lisa Youngers

10/7/20251 min read

Skeleton wearing sunglasses sitting in lounge chairhair
Skeleton wearing sunglasses sitting in lounge chairhair

Ready for some spooky decluttering? This month, we’re diving into the “scary stuff”—sentimental items. This might be furniture, household treasures, family photos, genealogy records, or simply anything and everything that once belonged to a loved one. These items can feel like ghosts haunting your closet, basement, or attic. Naturally, when the person is no longer with us, letting go feels even harder.

So… how do you preserve the memory without your home turning into a haunted house of heirlooms?

Here are a few simple not-so-spooky tips to manage those sentimental items:

  1. Sort first, scare later. Like any organizing session, begin by taking inventory. Look at each item and ask: Is this something I use, need, or love?

  2. The space test. Is it worth the space it takes? Does it fit into your current home and lifestyle?

  3. Memory vs. object. Remind yourself: you don’t need the physical item to keep the memory alive. The love and connection remain, even if the stuff doesn’t.

  4. Trim the duplicates. Do you really need every birthday card? The entire set of china? Select a few of your favorites and move on.

If you’re helping a loved one face the scary stuff:

  1. Listen first. Acknowledge their feelings—it’s not just clutter, it’s memories.

  2. Offer gentle support. Be a calm presence, not a pressure point. Suggest breaks and celebrate small wins.

  3. Focus on the future. Remind them that letting go can create space for the life they want now, while still honoring the past.

Decluttering sentimental items can feel a little spooky, but with the right approach, you’ll both find more breathing room—and the joy of highlighting the treasures that really matter.

Ready to get started or have questions? Let’s Talk! Schedule a free consultation today and learn how you can Downsize Simply!

Happy (not too spooky) organizing!